Inspired by Hope Dies Last.
Dear Mai,
By the time you read this, I imagine that in the hopefully-not-so-distant future you are curled up in your favorite chair with a mug of hot chocolate in hand, reminiscing your past love(s) and at the same time being grateful for finally finding the ONE.
It has been a long journey, hasn’t it? It only seemed yesterday that that fateful day happened — when the rug was unceremoniously yanked from underneath you and your world came crashing down. I remembered how hurt and broken you were. You needn’t say the words. The look on your face said it all.
And you thought you’d never get over HIM.
Yet here we are. And I am so happy for you. I know you have wanted this for so long that I can’t even express the joy and the excitement that I feel for you. And although I know deep inside that you are happy too, sometimes I can’t help but wonder what if ?
What if he never left you?
What if he wanted you back?
What good would that do?
You wouldn’t have known your strength if he had stayed. You wouldn’t have known the depth of your feelings had he not broken your heart. You wouldn’t have become a better person — a little bit jaded, yes, but a little bit more wordly and wise.
And honestly, you’d be stupid to take him back. I’m sorry for being crass, but I love you too much to see you get hurt and broken again. Plus I don’t think I could stand all the ensuing dramas after that. Remember when each sad lovesong became your theme song? How each sob, unrequited love story was your own? And how foolish you were to believe all that he said?
But you know what? He’s an even bigger fool for letting you go. He was right on one thing though — you deserve somebody better. I remember all that and more. I remembered how those very same words haunted you, gave you hope that maybe, just maybe…..
It’ll always be a maybe.
Nothing more.
Nothing less.
It couldn’t have been more black and white than that.
Mere memories. Just another old photograph.
I know you thought you loved him. And by God, I did too, but the truth is, you only loved the man you thought he was. I know sweetie, the truth hurts.
The truth also sets you free.
It feels good, doesn’t it? Take a deep, slow breath and let it all out. Suddenly, it’s not that gray anymore, the world has become a tapestry of colors that you didn’t even notice before. And for a moment, you even think that the sun is shining a little bit brighter.
And I know, vintage me, as if on cue, your the ONE is walking towards you… with that warm smile of his that you have come to know and love, slowly spreading across his face as he sits besides you and gives you a tender kiss. As he playfully brushes that strand of hair away from your face, you look deeply into his eyes and think how lucky you are to have finally found him. When in reality, Mai, he is lucky to have found you.
Remember when you used to ask your friends how’d they know if he’s the one? Now you finally understood.
You just know.
You realize that those damned poets do know what they’re writing about. That when they write about being blind for so long and finally have seen clearly for the first time, you finally get it. That finally, it felt feels right.
So, eventhough that I know this time it’s different, hold back a little bit. But love, nonetheless.
Take this moment to let him know that having him in your life makes it better every single day that you’re living it. Tell him that no matter what happens you’ll always be here and that you love him. Now, forever and everyday in between.
We’ve been through a lot, you and I. And as this letter comes to a close, remember always, always that I love you, Mai. You probably might not hear much from me these days but always know that I’m just a thought away.
Take care.
Your inner drama queen,
Moi
